The readiness of a partner for intimacy can be determined not only by the condition of his penis. An erection is not always visible, but it is often important for a woman to be aware of what she loves. It is easy to understand that a man is aroused easily and by other often not very direct signs.
Nonverbal signals
Like it or not, man shows interest in the object of the opposite sex through external manifestations of behavior and reactions of the body. Your partner's non-verbal messages will help you understand his condition and readiness for sexual intercourse. Frequent repetition of actions speaks of his desire. This "mirroring" is a clear symptom of passion and desire for a closer relationship.
During communication, a man overwhelmed by passion will try to get closer, reduce the distance to the object of desire and this action is performed automatically without consciousness. Further, he will try to touch the woman with his hand or foot, establish physical contact, but this does not mean that the excited partner will develop an offensive without respecting the rules of decency.
Contact will be quite casual, easy, without obsession, but you can obviously feel the excitement that a man experiences during such contact. The woman realizes that this behavior is not accidental, seeing the persistence and a certain nervousness of human behavior.
It is also important to note the external manifestations of a man's behavior. In a moment of excitement he tries to straighten his shoulders, retract his stomach, present his figure in a favorable light. Often, because of the excitement, the partner starts licking his lips, grabbing his chin, nose or ears with his fingers, which is also typical for women.
Signs of arousal of a person, which are manifested non-verbally, can be reduced to a small list of characteristics of his behavior:
- an excited man tries to please a woman - move a chair, open a door, help with something, or serve;
- seeks to reduce distance in communication;
- during the conversation the man tries to establish light physical contact;
- a man, burned with passion for a woman, does his best to be alone with her more often.
Poses of a man
The need to show sexual attraction in an implicit way was born in an era of strict rules and regulations, when the attitude about the intimate process was taboo by moral codes and church standards. Both man and woman had to show their partner a willingness to take action without fear of publicity and public reprimand. In such cases, nonverbal cues enabled learning about likes and desires.
Wanting a woman and not showing it is wrong, from the point of view of a normal man. Therefore, the potential partner, unconsciously or unconsciously, tries to show the object of desire his interest in sexual gestures and posture.
The man shows most of the gestures and positions on a reflex level, not understanding his sexual orientation towards the woman. Some of them clearly show interest, others are more hidden and are read only by a girl ready for contact.
When a man sees an attractive woman, he inadvertently starts betraying an "alpha male". Readiness for sexual intercourse means confident posture and a high tone of the physical condition of your own body. This is usually seen in the following manifestations:
- the man straightens his back and straightens his shoulders;
- trying to pull his stomach deeper;
- if the man is standing, his legs are spread shoulder-width apart, which shows a special stability and strong position;
- it is also important to follow the position of the socks of men's shoes, if he is interested in some attractive person, then they will be directed at this woman;
- if a man sits on a chair, he will inadvertently spread his legs so that, as if demonstrating his own genitals, he is ready to mate.
The involuntary postures and gestures of a man who wants to occupy a woman he likes often resemble the behavior of male monkeys during games of rubbing and mating, indicating the common roots of primates and humans.
An excited man starts straightening his clothes and hair in the hope that his appearance will attract a woman’s attention. Instead of an angular and heavy gait, he moves fast, like an athlete, while correcting imperfections in his figure, straightening and removing his belly. A glow appears in the eyes, the skin on the face automatically tightens, and the bags under the eyes disappear on their own. In general, passion makes a person much younger and really more desirable for a friend.
Now such a gesture is seldom used, and many have already forgotten about it, but even fifty years ago thumbs placed behind the waist of trousers meant rough, ostentatious action towards a woman, aimed at demonstrating her own genitals.
The delay of a man's gaze on the object of his lust speaks volumes. When he looks a woman in the eye for a little longer than the rules of decency dictate, it indicates his excitement and readiness for closer contact.
The position of the hands on the hips shows the woman the physical superiority of the man over other rivals, his power and strength, and thus the readiness to reproduce.
Interestingly, women are more sensitive to the manifestations of male attention and quickly notice all the tricks of a possible partner, while the guy may not understand the sympathy that the girl shows him for a long time.
Physical manifestations
The state of arousal in a man is manifested not only by the erection of the penis, but also by other, often not so obvious, physiological signs.
A man, prone to passion, often straightens the details of his clothes, loosens the knot of his tie which literally begins to strangle him. Breathing becomes rhythmic, the tone of the voice may change to lower, the gaze becomes blurred, the pulse speeds up, blood pressure jumps. Behavioral characteristics in this period are very difficult to hide from outside attention, and even more so from the object of desire - a woman catches such signs instantly and consciously records them.
Men can be aroused not only by direct manifestations of female sexuality, but also by obsessive thoughts about intimacy. The oncoming wave of passion grips the partner, and his behavior changes depending on temperament and hormonal levels. General signs of erotic tension are the above physiological indicators that in terms of symptoms are reminiscent of a state of stress. In addition to rapid breathing and heart rate, changes in voice and pressure occur, muscle tone increases, pupils dilate, and increased salivation is noted.
During an erection, a clear fluid is released from the penis that does not contain sperm, but is a type of lubricant that allows you to penetrate a woman’s vagina without much effort. It rises along the walls of the urethra and remains on the head of the penis in the form of drops.
The fat comes from Cooper’s glands and contains various enzymes. This clear liquid has several functions:
- removes residual urine from the urethra;
- the alkaline composition of the lubricant neutralizes the acidic environment of the female vagina;
- the viscous consistency of the lubricant allows you to prepare the urethra to release semen;
- the lubricant allows you to rub during intercourse without injuring the delicate skin.
The amount of lubricant depends on the individual characteristics of the human body and can range from one small drop to 5 ml. The main purpose of secreting fluid is to provide a favorable environment for conceiving a child. Neutralizing the acidic atmosphere of the vagina is necessary in order to increase the survival rate of active sperm.
The main sign of male sexual arousal is an erection of the penis. Due to the increased supply of the penis, the corpora cavernosa are filled with plasma, and the size of the organs noticeably increases in length and width.
The change in the size of the penis in an upright position compared to the usual depends on the individual characteristics of the human body, but it has been observed that a small penis increases more noticeably than a more impressive organ.
The erect penis becomes hard and elastic, which ensures its penetration into the woman's vagina, the man is already completely ready for coitus at this moment and the passion flares up even more.
During penetration into a woman's bosom, the male body is even more involved in the process of sexual intercourse. The pulse increases, the muscle tension reaches its limit, the pressure increases even more
and it becomes almost impossible to curb passion.
The peak of sexual intercourse for a man is ejaculation, followed by orgasm. Pleasure lasts 5-10 seconds and is caused by the contraction of the smooth muscles of the prostate, while seminal fluid filled with millions of sperm passes through the urethra.
A man may make sudden noises and moans during orgasm. The amount of semen depends on the structure of the person and the duration of abstinence.